What did my wife do as a 19 year old?
She never volunteered much specific information. My happiness was spoiled as I found out snippets of her past. On one occasion, she had been drinking with an old friend of hers who was visiting, and it emerged that as 18/19 year old girls, they used to regularly go to a nightclub and pick up men for casual sex.
Is there a problem with my wife’s past?
My problem now is that twice in the last three years we have been visited by old friends from that era and something said or remembered has triggered these jealous feelings from the past which I have tried to bury.
How long have I worked at the same company?
I have been working at the same company, in increasingly senior roles, for the past 18 years – almost all my working life (I am 45). I’m starting to feel like a freak; in my industry, it is unusual to stay for longer than five years.
How many long term relationships did my wife have?
She had been in 3 long term relationships lasting about 2 years each and was intimate with each one of those guys. Afterall, when you date someone for long enough then it just seems right for many people to have sex. I found out names of these guys since they were still in the area but I never see them.
Why did Debbie Hampton leave her husband after 18 years?
Debbie Hampton recovered from decades of unhealthy thinking and depression, a suicide attempt, and resulting brain injury to become an educational and inspirational writer. I Left A Marriage After 18 Years. Here’s What I’ve Learned I Left A Marriage After 18 Years. Here’s What I’ve Learned I Left A Marriage After 18 Years. Here’s What I’ve Learned
How old was my wife when she met me?
I had been in one long term relationship with a younger girl but we had not ‘gone all the way’ because we both felt that we wanted to save ourselves for the right person. When I first met my wife she was 21 and had been dating a 35 year old guy for some months, which I found rather odd, but beyond that I knew nothing of her past.