Q&A

Why do I want to leave my perfectly good husband?

Why do I want to leave my perfectly good husband?

There must be something sick about him, that he pretends when you tell him to pretend, that he’s loyal to you, that he laughs at your jokes, that he tolerates your bad dogs. You must not need love. You must require chaos. You need to lose your food and shelter.

Can You Leave your husband when you have a child?

Maybe you could use a little help on how to leave your husband when you have a child. Well, it depends on the situation you are in. Leaving a marriage with children cannot be an impulsive decision and more so not an emotional one.

Is it better to leave a marriage with children?

The more you can decide what’s best out of court, the better. It may mean a lot of giving and taking, but it’ll be better than the stress and uncertainty of what could happen when a judge gets involved. So, if you have to plan on leaving a marriage with children, it is always better to negotiate out of court.

Do you want your husband to stop pretending?

You don’t want him to stop pretending. You don’t want to talk about difficult things, like the fact that you’re falling apart, nothing is getting better, your house is caving in. You steadfastly refuse to talk about your crumbling house. So instead, you’re fixated on what’s wrong with the yard.

What should I do if my children refuse to leave home?

Be responsible for the loan you co-signed and nothing more, if push comes to shove. From this point forward, never ever co-sign a loan with anyone, including your children–especiallyyour children. The only time I would consider that is if I was prepared to pay the entire loan without complaining or getting upset.

Why do parents leave so much to their children?

( This provocative article is adapted from the new book, Entitlemania, by Richard Watts .) Somewhere in our DNA as parents, we believe it is an act of love, generosity, or for some, contrition, to leave our children an inheritance after we die.

What happens when your child leaves home for good?

My son is moving his adult life to another state, and that’s where he’ll make adult decisions that will change that life. I can’t imagine watching a child leave for a permanent destination halfway around the world. And I can barely wrap my brain around the thought of sending a child off to war.

What should I do if my parents leave all my money to my kids?

Tell them Mom and Dad have decided to leave all of their money, excepting the personal belongings, to charity. Or an alternative would be to leave all of your money to a family foundation where the kids are the directors who would designate the money only to charities. How would they react?